Did
you know that most of today's popular marriage ceremony and reception traditions
are actually based on ancient superstition as well as some very practical
matters? You can scour the net and find all sorts of traditions based on
the silliest of superstition.
Although the exact origin and usefulness
of many of these early wedding ceremony traditions are unclear, popular
acceptance has allowed them to continue. Besides, many of these wedding
traditions are just plain fun!
The one tradition I love the most
is the bride carrying flowers
down the aisle.
Now here's one based in practicality. Did you know that the reason the bride
carried flowers was simply to cover up body odor. You see, back in the "good
old days" no one took baths very frequently! We can be thankful for indoor
plumbing!
According to various sources, some
of the early marriages were literally carried out by the Groom and his Groomsmen
who would kidnap a woman. Thus the tradition of carrying the bride over the
threshold.
The Groom and his fellow conspirators
would then fight off the female's family of tribesmen with swords held in
their right hand while the Groom would hold the captured Bride in his left
hand. Thus even today the Bride stands on the left side of the Groom at marriage
ceremonies.
After a successful capture, another
politically correct practice was for the Groom to hide his new Bride for
one month. He did want to be alone with her. Thus it is said that the word
"honeymoon" was created to describe this one-month cycle of the
moon.
Later,
in the more civilized society (or should I just say later..) some marriages
were nothing more than trading chips used in bartering land, social status,
or political alliances.
The
word, "Wedding" comes from the Anglo-Saxon word "wedd" that meant a man would
marry a woman and pay the Bride's father. How times have changed. Now a man
marries a woman and the Bride's father pays. But the word itself has
stuck. |